How to get what you want!

Here we are with the 2^nd in this series on manifestation. In the first post in the series I spoke about manifesting for 2015 and invited you to ponder on your relationship with manifestation.

Everyone has stories of when things manifested easily and fell into the realms of what you would describe as a miracle.

Sitting on a train and you happen to be seated opposite a person who is exactly who you wished in the morning you could meet.

Or the time you were about to launch something and before you even had a chance to press go to launch, every ‘spot’ or place had been filled without you lifting a finger or making a move. Or so it would seem.

For some they take this as a sign that they do not need to ‘market’ because something magical happens and that is how they want it always. Certainly a wonderful aim yet an illusionary one.

Marketing energetically is about getting your energy and the energy of what you do out there!

However for most when they experience ‘fast’ or ‘miraculous’ manifestation and decide that they don’t need to market and therefore won’t, what is really being said underneath is:

“I dislike marketing and hopefully can avoid it….”

If this is you then you misunderstand marketing. Marketing is the invitation for your potential market to reply with a YES or a NO and it is your opportunity to get your energy and power out there.

Sometimes you have to market AKA manifest on more cylinders than other times. It depends on how you believe, in the energy of what you are doing and the energy that you have around you in the ethers which is why I always teach ‘intuitive heart centered marketing.’

Marketing and manifesting are as I shared in the first in this series are different sides of the same coin. They are an energy that cooperate with each other by their very nature and if you favour one over the other then you are not cooperating when them.

The story deepens too as many heart centered business owners and maybe this is you too, favour manifestation and then take it a step further labelling ‘wanting’ as wrong.

Instead it is said: It’s all about feeling. This is what I want to feel.

Consider this, you want 2015 to be your best year yet in business. If you are unwilling to state what it is you want and only what you feel then what is it that you are going to create? Wake up daily and decide? That is what too many heart centered business owners are doing, playing the I shan’t commit game unless it is committing to not being committed that is.

How are you going to make 2015 your best year in business if you don’t let yourself claim what you want?

Of course how you feel is important however spirit has one thing it feels whatever happens and that is joy. Yes, you can be cranky (I know from my guides and teachers in spirit) yet joy isn’t replaced by cranky. Joy is always present and the most significant condition, when you are in joy it isn’t about being joyous towards others or situations as a self-sacrifice, it is about knowing your joy is not dependent on anyone or anything outside of you. Your choice is joy and you are sticking to it no matter what.

Of course this is tough sometimes. However a quiet moment to reconnect to joy is enough to keep you on track.

When you are in joy…

You feel good.

You have love for self.

You are abundant with yourself.

You are willing to step forward.

You are more magnetic and attract more.

Benefits are great and many wouldn’t you agree?

However people still believe and tell others to focus on what you want to feel…and then I hear from people who haven’t gotten anything that they would have wanted accepting it by saying they got what they wanted to feel.

How do those feelings pay the mortgage then? Or change the world?

Now I think it is slightly mad. Of course feel joy, whatever happens. However if your whole life is about feeling joy and never getting your business or life off the ground because you are too scared to say what you want or believe it is wrong and are willing to sacrifice everything you are here to do so you can stay happy…and I will be honest when you are in joy a spiritual quality you are not ‘happy’ as an emotional reaction you are in joy which is a totally different response…then you got big issues.

If you are not getting what you want in life there is something in you that doesn’t want it. It could be as simple as that and you have become confused or more likely you believe you don’t deserve it so you are pushing it away. All self serving to validate either a true position or an illusionary one.

Why are heart centered entrepreneurs scared of claiming what they want?

Of course people don’t get what they want because they are not willing to state it. Fear of failure is a great reason people are too scared to say what they want. If you don’t connect to what you want and therefore name it when it doesn’t happen you soften the blow of feeling like a failure. Well that is the energy excuse not the truth of course.

A fear of being seen as masculine as somehow ‘wants’ are seen as of men. Load of nonsense as women do you not want the best for your children? The ones you love? Yet for yourself you are unwilling and therefore unable to claim what you want and fear being branded as masculine by other women? Time to get out of this mire and claim what you want and the life that is your potential.

Misunderstanding how manifestation, attraction and magnetism works. If you don’t state it, it can’t happen in the way that you would desire it, if you were to let yourself have any desires that is.

Don’t believe they deserve it and this is often dressed up in a society perspective for women as women were not taught to ‘want’ but to accept. While this article isn’t exploring society and sexism and it may or may not be true the fact is are you creating your own reality or are you a product of your circumstances and unable to therefore be the best and powerful you?

If you focus on what you want to feel then you are working emotionally and not with your soul.

Emotions are part of the personality – the ego – the soul is a creation of essence.

Ask yourself this…where is it you want to create from and what aspect of you do you wish to have guide you?

If you want 2015 to be the best year ever for you then knowing what you want and ‘nailing’ it is essential. Without that you are playing flouncy with energy and saying whatever, albeit energetically.